By Joyce Deuley

I haven’t logged on in more than 57 days, or so my email tells me, which is true. I had, however, been slowly working on a blog about the Tech scene in San Antonio, a recap of the most recent TechStars cohort, and how excited I was to have my friend Alan Weinkrantz join the James Brehm & Associates team. But, I had allowed so many things to come between me and sharing that news. So, I am numb as I sit here, writing about him and how he is with us, but now only in our hearts.

This weekend, he was tragically killed while doing what he loved-helping people-in one of his favorite places on earth, Tel Aviv. Alan’s passion for narratives, Tech, and the people of Israel was overwhelming, as is their love of him.

I met Alan when I first joined Geekdom. He immediately welcomed me like an old friend, and was always available for a coffee or a quick chat or a joke. One of the best things about Alan was his enthusiasm for all that he did. He was a devoted father, a talented musician, a brilliant writer, PR guru, and so much more.

In the outpouring of affection since we all heard the news, I keep seeing #BeHelpful. Alan embodied this in all that he did, and always with love. If anything, the loss of him is a violent reminder that nothing is guaranteed. There is no excuse for waiting. I loved him dearly, and was beyond excited to work with him, and now I will be proud to do his memory justice and spend my time as he would.

For those of you who wish to help Alan’s family deal with this loss, there is a GoFundMe page dedicated to him. Thank you for any thoughts, prayers, and support.

With great love, Alan. I promise to #BeHelpful.